Gaining Fresh Perspective Via Cancer Diagnosis and Treatment
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Sara Martinek was diagnosed with breast cancer at the age of 27 and persevered with the support of her family, friends and care team, and came back with a new appreciation of what account in life.
Written by Sara Martinek
Almost everyone knows someone who has been affected by cancer . Like most people, I never thought it would happen to me. Then one day he was there – a bump. I was 27 years old, I was married to my heart, with two beautiful children, and I had a job that I liked to go to every day.
Suddenly, my normal life seemed to stop abruptly, while other aspects of my life seemed to me out of control or in fast forward mode. I felt completely out of control of my own life.
Being a cancer patient quickly became my new full-time job. So, you can imagine the relief that I felt when I realized how much the team of doctors and all the staff was amazing Mayo Clinic Health System . When your life is essentially in the hands of health professionals and caregivers, the safety you feel knowing you are on the right path is not expensive.
There is so much information to consider in a cancer diagnosis. I've always had time to absorb, deal with and ask questions. More than once, I received phone calls in the evening just to share the test results or after hours on a Friday, so I did not worry all week long. -end.
"There is so much information to consider with a cancer diagnosis that I've always had time to absorb, deal with and ask questions." – Sara Martinek
When I was diagnosed with breast cancer I was also identified as a carrier of the gene BRCA1 . This gene mutation creates a high risk of breast and ovarian cancer, as well as a primary cancer risk of 40 to 65%. I made the decision to have a double mastectomy with dissection of the axillary lymph nodes, followed by three reconstructive surgeries and four sets of chemotherapy .
As we plunged into cancer treatment on both feet first, my biggest fear was that my kids would feel abandoned. They were only 4 and 2 at the time of my diagnosis. Both realized that mom was sick but also young enough that I could protect them from the severity of my illness. With that also came the heartbreaking knowledge that if I had not beaten that, there was a good possibility that they would not remember me as they grew up.
My son stayed at my bedside all the time that I was in the hospital. I have never had to reach once for my cup of water. When I got home, family and friends exchanged shifts with me 24 hours a day, so my children could be at home with me. They learned my limits quickly, and we adapted. However, I must admit that losing my ability to take care of my own family was my greatest challenge during my illness.
Someone else had to clean our house, wash our clothes, prepare meals and help me to bathe and get dressed. When I could not do anything else, being with my husband and children gave me a purpose and a reason to smile, even when I did not want to. They are what made me out of bed and kept me everyday.
"I may have been diagnosed with cancer, but the disease has affected everyone in my life, and it is thanks to their unwavering support and their care that I am here today. " – Sara Martinek
I learned a lot from my experience with cancer. I've gained a perspective on what's really important in life: choosing my battles, not taking life for granted, taking lots of pictures, enjoying the little things, taking care of myself and enjoying others around. me.
This year, my Mother's Day was very special as it fell on the occasion of the third anniversary of my diagnosis. I may have been diagnosed with cancer, but the disease has affected everyone in my life. It is because of their unwavering support and their care that I am here today.
If there is anything from my cancer experience to share with others, it would be that cancer is not discriminatory. Know your body and the warning signs. Do not hesitate to check the symptoms. And never miss an opportunity to tell the people in your life how much they represent for you.